怀孕后可以做爱吗?孕期啪啪啪的误解

我老婆15年来到美国,来到这里的第一个月末就发现怀孕了。其实我们没打算这么快要孩子,但是当时保护措施没做好,按照安全期计算的,超级不准。发现怀孕后,惊慌失措,不该如何是好。说实话有过打掉的念头,看到她出生以及现在咿呀学话的样子,确实很内疚当时有那样的想法,太不应该了。再者,如果胎儿本身没有问题,是不能做掉的,那是犯法的。后来想,她既然和我们有缘,我们就应该迎接她,而且要好好为她的到来做准备。

怀孕后可以做爱吗?孕期啪啪啪的误解

我从懂事起,就记得一旦有人怀孕,就应该和丈夫分房睡。因为担心啪啪会把孩子折腾掉或对孩子造成伤害。自然而然,我老婆怀孕后,我们也为啪啪的事发愁,毕竟当时还是怀着国内大部分人的心态。

我们上网(google)查阅,以及后来咨询医生(怀孕后老婆必须去医院检查,特别频繁,比国内严谨太多。如果有机会或者大家感兴趣,我可以再发一些关于美国生孩子的内容),孕期其实是可以啪啪的。只不过注意姿势。

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官方没有明确的建议不让啪啪,但是老婆告诉我说(她查的多一些,她也上过好多免费的孕期课程),第一个trimester和最后一个月最好不要啪啪(一个trimester是三个月,一个孕期刚好三个trimester)。也就是说前三个月和后一个月不要啪啪。因为第一个trimester有流产的风险,最后一个月有早产的风险。

一般来说,只要尝试啪啪时,老婆没有感觉不适,就可以啪啪。上google一搜,很多美国人都说自始至终都啪啪,甚至临产前一天还啪啪的都有。这跟人种没关系,跟对怀孕的认识有关。我老婆怀孕的时候,我们也一直啪啪,直到临产前大概一周我们停止。一对朋友夫妇也问过我们如何解决孕期不能啪啪的问题,因为我老婆比他们怀孕早几个月,我们告诉她们:可以啪啪,只要不挤压肚子就行。现在她们宝宝也出生,没有任何问题。

重点

1)一定要注意姿势,只要不挤压老婆肚子的姿势都可以。比如后入式,老婆撅着屁股,双膝着床,双手支撑,老公从后面插入。也可以让老婆仰躺在床沿,小妹妹在床沿位置,老公站于或跪于地上,正常插入,这样也能防止挤压老婆肚子。

2)力度不能太大,这时候跟平时不一样,动作一定要慢,温柔,即使射精高潮前也不能太猛的抽插而发泄高潮。对于有身孕的老婆,如果没有达到高潮而且也不渴望高潮,那最好不过了。如果非要享受高潮,尽量不要剧烈的抽动。快要达到高潮时,老公减轻减慢动作甚至可以停止抽插来尽量避免高潮带来的剧烈抽搐。

申明:此贴仅属个人经验,因人而异。若在啪啪过程中发现任何异常,如腹痛,流血,应立即停止并前往医院检查。若老婆之前有过流产经历,应谨慎使用此法。因此法导致的任何后果,当事人自负。请狼友们谨慎再谨慎。

祝大家性福快乐!

附:google随意搜索的一篇关于孕期啪啪的文章。

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Is it safe to have sex during pregnancy?

Yes. If you’ve had a healthy pregnancy, there’s no reason why you and your partner can’t have sex. The thick mucus plug that seals your cervix helps to guard your baby against infection. The amniotic sac and the strong muscles of your uterus (womb) also keep your baby safe.

Your partner’s penis won’t damage your baby in any way while you’re having sex. You may find your baby moves around a bit after you’ve had an orgasm. It’s nothing to worry about. Your baby’s reacting to the pounding of your heart. He doesn’t know what’s happening or feel any discomfort.

You may have heard that having sex can bring on labor before your baby is ready to be born. This is not true, as long as you have had a straightforward pregnancy.

If your body is not ready to go into labor, having sex will not cause you to have a premature birth. In fact, it seems that if you have regular sex during pregnancy you may be less likely to give birth prematurely!

There are, however, some circumstances where you may have to be careful about having sex.

If you’ve had any bleeding or spotting in early pregnancy, your doctor may advise you not to have sex until you reach 14 weeks. Your doctor may say it’s best not to have sex for the rest of your pregnancy if you have:
a history of cervical weakness
a low-lying placenta (placenta praevia)
had heavy bleeding
had a vaginal infection

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